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Showing posts with label gay. Show all posts

Friday, December 21, 2012

________ can be assholes, too. If people hate you for your being you, tell them to fuck off.

“________ can be assholes, too. If people hate you for your being you, tell them to fuck off.” / SML.20121207.PHIL

“________ can be assholes, too. If people hate you for your being you, tell them to fuck off.” / SML.20121207.PHIL

It never “gets better.” The campaign which tells you that it does has no idea wtf they are talking about.

People who are narrow minded will continue to hate and discriminate you for who you are. But when you grow older you will learn to understand that their hating you is not your fault. You can try to educate and help them understand you better. You can also try to understand why they think the way they do. Investigate. Research. Do not give up. Don't hate them for hating you. Invite a dialog with them.

When you understand where other people are coming from and why they form the opinion that they do, you can choose to agree or to disagree. Being able to agree to disagree is a sign of maturity. You have power when you recognize that your being you is your own business. Life is too short caring about what other people think. You are not responsible for their happiness. You are however responsible for your own happiness.

You are you. You have you. You will always have you. If you believe in yourself, you need not care what other people think. If they hate you for your being you, just tell them to fuck off. Be yourself. Never change for others.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

I Say A Little Prayer [video]

This is *so* gay!!! Love it!


YouTube:JasonWhipple
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Lp3s4ygDw0
The Full Silkwood performing "I Say A Little Prayer" from GLEE, starring Josh Cheon, Jason Whipple and Mark Louque.

via FriendFeed:idlg2009

TV Ad: Together [video]



via Rochelle on FriendFeed

Friday, October 9, 2009

Best gay artists on Flickr

I have been on Flickr for quite a while and I have met countless inspiring gay artists on Flickr whom I follow on a daily basis. Here are a few who caught my eyes over the years:

male ®

It's Britney bitch (by male ®)

Tote bag by male ®  (by male ®)

madonna by male® (by male ®)

centaurpics

Tooker: Waiting Room, 1969 - a ReVision (by centaurpics)

Moon Kiss (by centaurpics)

Correggio: Danae, a revision (by centaurpics)

bodirkley

b020209 (by bodirkley)

081109 (by bodirkley)

020509 (by bodirkley)

Ismael Álvarez

Bakala Duo (by Ismael Álvarez)

Blonde (by Ismael Álvarez)

Melancolía en Londres (by Ismael Álvarez)

Do you know of anyone that I have missed? Let me know by leaving a comment below!

Thursday, October 8, 2009

That's gay: No Homo [video]

Discovered one day while reading tweets from @lgbtlife, this is the funniest gay video I have seen in years!



That's gay: No Homo | Infomania | Current

Are you terrified that people may think you're gay? No worries, hip hop has coined a phrase to get you out of the stickiest situations. Just throw in a "no homo" and you can say pretty much anything you want!

That's Gay is a recurring segment on the weekly television show infoMania. In each episode of That's Gay, Bryan Safi explores gay issues and stereotypes as they are portrayed by the clueless media. For more Bryan visit http://current.com/groups/thats-gay/ and Current TV.

infoMania is a half-hour satirical news show that airs on Current TV. The show puts a comedic spin on the 24-hour chaos and information overload brought about by the constant bombardment of the media. Hosted by Conor Knighton and co-starring Brett Erlich, Sarah Haskins, Ben Hoffman, Bryan Safi and Sergio Cilli, the show airs on Thursdays at 10 pm Eastern and Pacific Times and can be found online at http://current.com/infomania/ or on Current TV. And make sure to check out our facebook profile for special features at http://infomaniafacebook.com.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Bert and Ernie / SML Ideal Husbands

Bert and Ernie (Wikipedia) are two roommates on the long-running television show Sesame Street. The two appear together in numerous skits, forming a comic duo that is one of the centerpieces of the program. Originated by Frank Oz and Jim Henson, the characters are currently performed by Muppeteers Eric Jacobson and Steve Whitmire, with Oz performing Bert occasionally since 2000.

Bert and Ernie: Let me tell you a secret / 20090917.10D.53994.P1 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

I always thought that Bert and Ernie are the perfect couple. I admire them and I cherish them. I also thought that they are the ideal husbands, and I wish that my love life is as rich and colorful as theirs.

A few years back, I met a friend who used to be an executive producer at the Children's Television Workshop, and I said: you know they are so gay... He said: They look gay because they *are* gay.

I don't know why I have never thought of putting them in a photoshoot together but tada here they are, featured in my Ideal Husbands photography project. I tried to write toy stories regarding these two love birds:

Toy Story 1

Ideal Husbands: Bert and Ernie / 20090917.10D.53940.P1.SQ / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Toy Story 1

SML: Hi, I'm working on a project called Ideal Husbands and I would really like to include you guys in it.
Ernie: Yeay!
Bert: Hmm... I'm not sure, Ernie, it doesn't sound like a very good use of our time...
Ernie: But it would be so much fun.. Weee....
Bert: I'm exhausted from work. Don't you think that it would be better use of our time if we cuddle in bed instead?
Ernie: Oh come on babe, if we get photographed by SML, we would be famous! Wee..!
Bert: (reluctantly) Alright.. I guess I can sit in for a few minutes, but be quick!
SML: Thank you thank you thank you! Lots of SML Love for you!
Bert: Hurry up I don't have all day... Ernie honey, try to sit still!

Toy Story 2

Ideal Husbands: Bert and Ernie / 20090917.10D.53948.P1.SQ / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Bert and Ernie with the wooden salamander during the Ideal Husbands shoot at SML Studio.

Toy Story 3: Kiss

Kiss: Bert and Ernie / 20090917.10D.53934.SQ.BW / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

I made an attempt to get these love birds for my kiss project but Ernie's constant open-mouth action made it tricky. I will try again later.

Toy Story 4: Life is great when you're next to me

Bert and Ernie: Life is great when you're next to me / 20090917.10D.53973.P1 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Toy Story 5: Bert and Ernie: Getting Trashed on Pinot Noir

Bert and Ernie: Getting Trashed on Pinot Noir / 20090917.10D.53958.SQ / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

With a big glass of Pinot Noir in hand, Bert forgot about the pain of modeling while Ernie got trashed.

Erotocrat (NYC) had a different take:
It was reported by Burt that the euphoria caused by Ernie is unlike hand-puppet jobs received from other muppets. I even remember my first experience with Ernie, who as a young muppet, emerged from Mr. Hooper’s bodega off of Sesame Street one crispy morning. Ernie glanced at me as though I were a masked Adonis of some sort and told me in no uncertain terms, that he felt like the letter B.

Toy Story 6: When Tigger Visits

Bert and Ernie: When Tigger visit / 20090917.10D.53975.P1 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Bert is unamused when Tigger comes to play.

Bert: Tigger comes over to visit us every now and then. I think that he's cute and all but the problem is, he and Ernie would just giggle and gossip non-stop which gets really annoying sometimes.

Related SML
+ SML Flickr Sets: Bert and Ernie / SML Ideal Husbands
+ SML Flickr Sets: Ideal Husbands
+ SML Flickr Sets: Men

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Flickr Censorship Standards = Gay Bashing?

Cross-posted on SML Pro Blog.

Earlier this year, Flickr popped my account to "restricted" status, resulting in a 3000 to 30 daily stream views.

SML to Flickr: Why is my stream flagged as moderate? = Severely diminished traffic volume (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

It took me 6 months to figure out what the hell was wrong. I didn't get a reply from the official staff despite several attempts to contact them. Eventually I got so pissed off that I did a Twitter stunt and posted a long-winded outcry on GetSatisfaction.com. That appears to help, I got a reply from the Flickr staff within one day.

Apparently, according to Flickr standards, the image below is to be treated as moderate / restricted.

An R-rated image as according to Flickr Censorship standards / 20070624.10D.43162.BW.SQ / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Personally I do not understand why this image is moderate. Afterall, don't you see guys like this *all the time*?

Flickr replied by saying that the image needs to be moderate because the person is wearing "skin-tight" clothing. I then asked them if I took photos at the Olympics or at the beach, do I need to mark them as moderate as well, to which they reply, that "regardless of where they were taken, they need to be moderated."

In other words, according to Flickr Censorship standards, this will only appear in an R-rated movie. Meanwhile, the Yahoo Pride page during 2007 happily use my photos on their site, so WTF?!

As such the image above is flagged as moderate as well. Even though I disagree with Flickr's standards...

Anyhow, SML Flickr is now "safe" after flagging all these images to moderate to restricted status, but this standard appears questionable.


Related blogosphere
+ Now Public: flickr: Racist and Homophobic, or Scamming?
+ Thomas Hawk's Digital Connection: Someone's started a Flickr Is Fascist Blog, Accuses Flickr of Anti-Gay Censorship Policies

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Annual Faerie + Church Ladies for Choice Drag March 2008

Some highlights from the Annual Faerie + Church Ladies for Choice Drag March 2008. Be sure to check out the entire set and related collections:

SML Flickr Sets
+ Annual Faerie + Church Ladies for Choice Drag March 2008
+ Annual Faerie + Church Ladies for Choice Drag March 2007
+ Radical Faeries Drum Ritual / Gay Pride New York 2007

SML Flickr Collections
+ Gay Pride New York 2007
+ Gay Pride New York 2008

Annual Faerie + Church Ladies for Choice Drag March 2008 / 20080627.10D.49680 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Annual Faerie + Church Ladies for Choice Drag March 2008 / 20080627.10D.49688 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Annual Faerie + Church Ladies for Choice Drag March 2008 / 20080627.10D.49496 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Annual Faerie + Church Ladies for Choice Drag March 2008 / 20080627.10D.49583 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Annual Faerie + Church Ladies for Choice Drag March 2008 / 20080627.10D.49362 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

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Copyright 2007 See-ming Lee / SML Gay Blog / SML Universe. All rights reserved.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Google Trends: Gay vs Straight

www.google.com/trends?q=gay%2C+straight

Google Trends: gay, straight / 2008-01-21 / SML Screenshots (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Someone at work (who shall not be named so as not to be tainted with these subject matter) told me about Google Trends today as a far more addictive toy to play with than Google Sets. I tried it out and he's darn right.

Here as per my own curiosity, I noted how while there are approximately twice as much "straight" news stories than "gay" news stories, there are more than 10 times as many "gay" searches than "straight" searches.

If Kinsey is right about that 10% of the (American) population is gay, then we see that the other 90% is at least very curious.





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Copyright 2008 See-ming Lee / SML Gay Blog / SML Universe. All rights reserved.

Saturday, January 19, 2008

Bar-hopping in NYC

Avery took me out for dinner at Mercer Kitchen on Friday (2008-01-18). Food was yummy. It was definitely a welcoming treat at the end of the SML Appendectomy event:

Roast Chicken

20080118.SD850IS.2015 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Slow-baked Salmon

20080118.SD850IS.2016 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

My weird dessert: popcorn float

20080118.SD850IS.2018 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Dinner

Avery Knox / 20080118.SD850IS.2017 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

And now... hot men spotted during the bar-hop afterevent:

Mark, 31yo, went to college in DC for international affairs, seen at Therapy

Ideal Husband: Mark / 20080119.SD850IS.2019 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Brian, 33yo. T-shirt by Kenneth Cole. Seen at Vlada

Brian / 20080119.SD850IS.2028 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Nate (NG), 29yo, also wearing Kenneth Cole. Seen at Vlada

Nate (NG), 29yo, seen at Vlada / 20080119.SD850IS.2031 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Then we decided to hit to Eagle NYC:

MEN / 20080119.SD850IS.2032 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Found this hot muffin Sean Donahue on the roof. Woof!

Ideal Husband / 20080119.SD850IS.2041 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Rafael, doorman at the Eagle

Ideal Husband / 20080119.SD850IS.2044 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

We went to Barracuda and called it a night. Found Taylor J.. Hair by Sasa at Redge. Taylor is 24yo and lives in Astoria:

Ideal Husband / 20080119.SD850IS.2048 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

And that concludes my January gay bar hopping tour. Trust that I'll be doing more of these very soon.

Cheers,
SML

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Copyright 2008 See-ming Lee / SML Gay Blog / SML Universe. All rights reserved.

Thursday, January 17, 2008

All-Ivy / Seven Sisters Mixer / 2008-01-17

Went to my second All-Ivy / Seven Sisters Mixer this past Thursday at People and had a ton of fun. Avery told me all about it but he couldn't come at the last minute. But I'm glad that I went anyway.

As always, I'm taking photographs of hot men found at the party for my Ideal Husbands project. Here they are:

William Sofield / Princeton Alum

Ideal Husband: William Sofield / 20080117.SD850IS.1999 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Michael Lewis, Harvard '94

Michael Lewis / 20080117.SD850IS.2000 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Derrick Smith, Dartmouth '07

20080117.SD850IS.2001 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Malcolm Toussaint, Harvard '96

20080117.SD850IS.2003 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Julian Liu, Yale '98

Ideal Husband: Julian Liu, Yale '98 / 20080117.SD850IS.2004 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Dartmouth '97 Babes - name unavailable

Ideal Husbands: Dartmouth '07 Gay Babes / 20080117.SD850IS.2007 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

Went to Urge and 105 Rivington afterwards with Sean Chappin (Yale '98) but somehow the next day I got up I discovered I've got some very interesting photographs of the Cock. I wonder how I got there:

20080118.SD850IS.2011 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

The Cock / 20080118.SD850IS.2013 / SML (by See-ming Lee 李思明 SML)

And that's a wrap!


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Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Levi's gay commercial

I was watching Project Runway today and I was surprised to find a well-made gay-themed commercial during the commercial break and of course I found it on YouTube!



It is very encouraging to me as more main-stream brands embrace the gay community for advertising. It's smart for them anyhow: the majority of the gay and lesbian household profile is double-income, no kids, and are people who have the drive to achieve much more (perhaps to prove a point to their family and peers) and thus will have a significantly stronger spending power than other market segments.

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Copyright 2008 See-ming Lee / SML Gay Blog / SML Universe. All rights reserved.

Monday, January 14, 2008